Monday, January 4, 2010 @1:24 PM
there has been many breakups in the year 2009. it is a bad year for r/s. at least for the loved ones around me...i've seen many breakups..many. mine inclusive.
It had been a longlong 5 years for me and her..at least to me. it was long enough...for me to even have the idea of settling down, hoping to build with her the world's bestest family ..
Many have said " long r/s wouldnt last till marriage, it's the one that u get together with during the age when ppl are ready to get married, that's the one u will marry with"
I always beg to differ..but now the reality is making me witnessing the harsh facts by the evolution of mankind's view of a r/s. Not that i am divine. The past p/s has also proved me wrong..so wrong. It shattered me..deep within, to now..i identify myself as someone who's not capable of giving another one..the kinda bf that the venuz-es would seek to have.
But what kind of bf am i.
I chose to give in whenever there's a quarrel, be it her fault/mine. not immediately, but after awhile, i'll just be the one picking the phone. yes, perhaps this is what others will call weak.
Whatever kind of food she wants to eat, i'll try to accomodate, i'll try to like what she likes.
Whatever model of car she prefers, i would hold back on my own choice and think twice abt it .
I would bid the carplate no. of mine to be our anniversary date.
I would try to make our anniversaries a special one. monthsaries with little surprises as long as i can think of any. It's literally down to nothing much that i can give as a gift.
I would tell her no, its too expensive and shouldnt buy it..when she sees something she loves. and get it for her for our anniversary or any other special occasions.
I would want to make her the 全世界最辛福的人 . . . .by kneeling down and asking for her hand.
-love ought to be sweet, everlasting, not dependent on just when it starts-
